Stil processing

i m a product in this world.still in the processing stage.

its a process.the day ill become the final product i shall anounce.

and then the world may reep benefits from the final product for they have worked towards making it.

Says bharatesh suvarna

ankita


Dear Friends,

Why is it that we always allow our emotions to overtake us? By doing that we only do bad to ourselves.

Remember that no one can hurt your feelings without your cooperation and willingness

No one can cause you to have any kind of emotional reaction without your first giving them permission to do so. You alone are responsible for your feelings and emotions. When you know what you plan to do with your life, you will not allow annoying situations to deter you from your goals for long. If you set ambitious goals for yourself and work enthusiastically toward them, you will quickly realize that you don't have time to allow petty annoyances to upset you and keep you from your objectives.

Cheers,

Helping others gives me peace

I quote a friend Dale Bhagwagar here: “Problems sab ko hoti hai! Dard sab ko hota hai! Over the years, however one gets used to dealing with them. This practice of ignoring the dard by a lot of people, is what I term as being positive.” This coming from a guy like Dale, who is known to be “happier than thou” at all times, is quite a revelation.

 

He is not entirely wrong. I have realized an seen everybody be it actor, pr, reporter, politician, housewife, CA, office boy…..all have their share of issues. ALL. If we think we are the one suffering the most and that god has been very unkind to me and only me, we are wrong.

 

A learned person once told me…..a very good way of reducing your pain is to see the pain of others around you. Its as much if not more than yours. And to help yourself deal with your pain help others reduce their pain.

 

You might not be in position to solve their problems entirely. But if you sit and listen to them it might not let them feel alone.

 

In this kalyug as a friend puts it, if we manage to maintain our sanity we have achieved a lot. My way of maintaining my sanity is to devote myself to others. It doesn’t necessary apply I stop living for myself. I will not be able to help others if I am not standing on my feet firmly.

 

But to share your joys with others and help them reduce their sorrows makes my life worthwhile. If u haven’t done that ever, try once. It gives u peace.

 

It gives me peace.